Me, Myself and I

Virgo is a very independent zodiac sign. They are fully able to put their intelligence to use and get things done for themselves. It is possible however that their narrow mindedness causes their creativity to suffer and they may lead regular routine lives. They may dwell too much on the past and over complicate things and this may limit their ability to move forward and confuse themselves. In conclusion, Virgos are able to be independent but the less evolved types will have difficult if someone is not there helping them to achieve more and not be so critical of themselves.

Although Darren doesn't fit all the traits of Virgo, he is very self entertained, independent, self motivated and fun. He loves to be the center of attention and his feelings are hurt easily. He can be emotional at times but is such a gentle kid, despite his size.

People look up to Virgo for friends because they are straight thinkers and solve problems logically. They are truthful, loyal and determined. Some people might find them cold or emotionally detached because they live in their minds, not in their emotions and feelings. It might be hard to pin down how a Virgo friend is feeling because they easily live in denial. A person who is able to read deep into another person will notice when Virgo is not well but if they confront them about it, they would rather retreat then talk about it. It is best to keep your emotional distance from a Virgo friend unless they open up to you first. Virgo might try to analyze and control a friend's life but only with the idea that they will improve their life, not purely for the sake of controlling. Be patient with your Virgo friend and understand that their recommendations are only to make your life better.

Before a Virgo plunges into anything, from a problem to a vacation idea, they need to analyze all the facts and know all the details before they plunge in and make a decision. This makes them seem indecisive and slow. Virgo's perception is their reality, more so then other astrology signs. What they believe is what will be, if they have a negative outlook on life, things will present themselves to be negative and they will be very moody and isolated/detached. If they are positive, the same events that occur will be held in a positive light and they will be a pleasant, well adjusted person. A Virgo mind is a very powerful mind and they must have the proper attitude for their life to be happy and successful. Virgo needs to get in touch with their feelings, this is why they usually seem cold or detached. They are very prone of living in denial. They will say the feel okay or everything is alright even when it's not. This is an easy way out, the one thing that Virgo does not like to analyze is their feelings so pretending everything is okay is a good defense mechanism for not having to take a closer look at their feelings. Virgo has an unpredictable and sometimes unstable temperament

They need to be organized in their mind, sometimes all their energy is taken from organizing their mind that they have a difficult time organizing their surroundings. They easily look too deep into an issue and over analyze what they precept. Virgo is ambitious and strives to always know more and have more. This is in their eternal quest to bring order to chaos. Even if order is obtained from an outsiders' point of view, Virgo will not be settled for they have a very active mind that is always thinking and can never be silenced. Virgos want to be of use, they need to be important and essential to everyone in their lives and in everything they do. Virgo's major life lesson is to learn to trust in and have faith in the unknown. They have to understand that things in life happen for a reason that is not always known to them, they do not have to always know everything. They need to learn to calm down and not over-analyze a situation or event. Deep inside, Virgo is very sensitive and they need to be appreciated for all the things they do. When is Virgo is offended or hurt, they may never show it. And Dare is sensitive!

Darren, the Virgo, in a nutshell:

Virgo exists in the mind, everything is inside. To the world, Virgo presents a calm and collected exterior but on the inside, nervous uncontrolled intensity in the mind, trying to figure things out, how to improve everything, analyzing and thinking. Virgo can tire itself out without even moving! Virgo has a constant drive to improve and perfect, this can lead to extreme pickiness and finickiest. They are pure, their motives are honest never malicious and they want to accomplish something.

Full Fledged Leo

In the “Wizard of Oz,” Dorothy befriends a lion who is without the courage these cats are so well-known for. Eventually, he finds his courage and restores his lion-esque status. Unlike the lion in this great classic, a Leo, represented by the lion, rarely loses his or her courage. In fact, in the jungle, the lion is defined by inner and outer strength and the desire to rule his or her kingdom. While a Leo’s strength may be overbearing for some, it’s also hard to miss the fact that they indeed have the “heart of a lion.” Leo is very independent but they need something to control and someone to admire them and appreciate them. They are fully capable of being greatly successful on their own but they are much happier if they have an audience and a following of people who look up to them. They would prefer not be alone.

This is my Jaycee. A Leo in full force! The Boss, the leader, the sassy little girl that loves to look at herself! What Leo wouldn't want a full mirrored closet in her bedroom? Jaycee does! She likes to see herself from all angles. She is friendly, fun-loving, hilarious, serious, sociable and crazy!

People are attracted to Leo's zest for life and their warm spirit. They have the ability to lift up one's spirits and provide encouragement when times are rough. Their enthusiasm attracts people, Leos are social butterflies, not because they want to be but because people always naturally gravitate and surround the Leo. Leos are very difficult people to not like, they are usually fairly balanced, realistic people. They never dwell on the past and they will think you are strange if you do. Some Leos might be too caught up in themselves and be very self-centered but they are never too self-absorbed to help anyone who needs it. They pamper their friends and treat them well. A Leo is the ultimate friend. They do not hold a grudge and they are very forgiving. They have respect and understanding of people's differences.

Leo loves the new and extraordinary, they despise dull, regular routines and if this is what they are faced with, they will simply create their own drama and excitement. This makes Leo prone to stir up a situation out of nowhere just for something to keep their vivacious temperament satisfied. Leo has an amazing ability to bounce back from any feelings of despair or unfortunate events. They do not like to be unhappy, it hurts their pride so they will take matters into their own hands and make things right again. Leos could come into conflict with other powerhouse type of people who will not take orders and not give an inch, Leos will not budge their opinion, they will understand and accept opinions of others but they do not take well to people to try to impose their beliefs on them. Leo most often have the temperament of a demanding, spoiled child but this is only shown if someone steps on the boundaries of their kingdom. They react this way because of their territoriality. -So this is why her emotions run from one extreme to another! And why when Michael gives her "the look" she runs to the couch so dramatically, throws her body down and hides her face and cries. Only for a minute though, then she is happy Jaycee again. hahaha.

Leos are extremely sensitive but they hide that very well. Leos love praise and flattery, their egos demand respect and adoration. Leo is all about pride. This can cause them to be self-centered but the warmth of the Leo heart keeps it under control. If Leo's audience (otherwise known as their friends) do not provide the needed appreciation, Leo is too proud to ask for it and they will suffer a hurt ego, but no one will ever know and they will suffer in silence. The secret of the Leo is that they need to be needed. And do we ever need her!

Jaycee, the Leo, in a nutshell:

Leo is the lion, this well suited symbol represents Leo very well. They possess a kingdom which they protest and cherish. The are high esteemed, honorable and very devoted to themselves in particular! The kingdom could be anything from work to home to a partner, whatever it is, you rule it. Leo is always center stage and full of flair, they enjoy basking in the spotlight. A Leo always makes their presence known. Leo are full of energy that acts like a magnet for other people. Others are attracted to Leo's wit, charm, and what they have to say for they speak of things grand and very interesting. Leo will never settle for second best. They want only the best which can cause lavish excessive spending habits as they enjoy their life of luxury, which is all to easily justified by the grand and magnificent Leo! Public image is very important to Leo, with luxurious possessions and ways of life, this keeps the public image in high standing. They will do whatever it takes to protect their own reputation. Leos are very generous, kind and openhearted people. If a Leo is crossed, they will strike back with force but they are not one to hold a grudge, they easily forgive, forget and move on. Leos are always trying to make things right in the world, they have larger then life emotions and they need to feel like they have accomplished something at the end of the day. They react to situations with action instead of sitting back and thinking about it, they are not impulsive however because they look at the future and consider consequences of their actions.

2 blog special!

So today is a 2 blog special. I have 2 things to write about although the 2nd one wont come until later today.
Last night after Michael made dinner I was cleaning up the kitchen. You know, the good kind of clean, bleaching the counters, buffing the table and sweeping. Since the next 2 days will be busy ones I figured I would get all that stuff out of the way. I had been in there for some time and Jaycee was in the bathtub. Darren and Michael were on the couch watching American Idol. I heard Jaycee say "Mama, mere" which normally means that she is done playing and ready to be washed. I told her to hold on one second since I was up to my elbows in bleach. About a minute passes and her calm calling turned into a really quiet cry and she said "Mama, mereeeeeee!" Both Michael and I looked at each other and I knew that I had to drop what I was doing and go check on her. When I walked past Michael and Darren I looked at Michael and asked why I had the feeling that she pooped in the bath tub. When I made it to the bathroom, I saw a VERY wet bathroom rug and little chubby Jaycee sitting on the thin long side of the bathtub edge holding her knees, shaking and dripping wet and as I asked her what was wrong, I already knew. She pointed inside the bath tub and she said in a very small and shaky voice "care meeeeee!" Jaycee pointed at a floating turd in the bath tub and cried. I felt so bad and called Michael in the bathroom. We both waited until Jaycee was in our shower and clean before we cracked up laughing at what she had done. She was genuinely scared of what she saw floating in the bath tub. She is my little frady cat!

Park Fun!

I love my family! I mean, not just my immediate family, extended too! They are fun, love to laugh and can make the best of any situation! I cant wait for Payson this weekend so I can see more of my family that I haven't seen in a while.

I thought I would share some of the pics from Nick's party on Sunday. It was extra windy! But it was still a good time with lots of laughs and lots of food. Cant beat that!